November 03, 2008
Actually, It's the People Who Are Foaming at the Mouth Over Gay Marriage Who are Threatening Heterosexual Marriages.
At least, my own: A the H and I nearly had to "step outside" over California's Proposition 8.
Patterico, however, is on my side. I wonder if his wife agrees with him.
And the proprietress of the now-dormant CalBlog is at odds with her own husband over the same issue. Of course, as attorneys they are used to discussing such matter in a dispassionate way.
My own equivalent household debate was not, really, my finest hour.
On the other hand, my husband didn't have play dirty pool by saying, "you really are very kind-hearted" during our discussion.
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Thanks for the breath of fresh air on this one, Joy.
Posted by: Jan Steckel at November 03, 2008 03:44 AM (cHdSL)
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My head wins this one, we are voting "yes" even as we have gay friends.
Compassion is ok in the micro, not the macro and same-sex marriage is not an end but a means.
The Catholic Charities was forced to close in MA because of SSM and the CA judges did more than find a new "right"...they have made sexual orientation a "suspect class" (equivalent to race). Watch CA become like Canada were pastors who preach that homosexual behavior is a "sin" are jailed (and the church loses its tax status)
I want SSM couples to be able to make all the legal arrangements they want ... from inheretance to medical proxy and to have any ceremony/celebration, too. Civil unions do that. But don't call it "marriage" and don't create the legal fantasy that SSM couples are the exact same as OSM (opposite sex marriage).
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October 24, 2008
Okay. I'm Back on the Line on Proposition 8.
Because this really
pisses me off.
Teachers' unions have done a lot to destroy young people's lives, and to keep teachers who are particularly talented and inspiring from getting paid any more than those who are simply glorified babysitters.
They are evil—like AARP, which purports to help retirees, but uses the money instead on gun control.
I shall try not to behave reflexively, but some of these groups—especially unions—that take people's hard-earned pay and then use the money to advance agendas that have nothing to do with their supposed missions—make me truly livid.
My mom was a teacher for years. And except in some arenas (she's a landlord who vigorously opposes rent control, because she sees up-close the damage it causes), she's pretty far to the left.
I'd be shocked if she did not vote for Obama in November.
But even my mom would prefer to choose her causes, rather than having others choose them for her.
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October 22, 2007
Well, Yeah. This Ain't What the Ohio Players Had in Mind.
My friends who are
at risk from the fires are all with-it, pragmatic types. They'll grab their family photos, their precious jewelry and their legal documents (along with changes of clothes, extra water, and their meds). They will not wait until the last minute to evacuate.
I know two households that have already relocated (one in Malibu/Topanga Canyon, and one in Canyon Country).
Presumably my cousins in San Diego have done the same, along with the ones around Newhall (from the other side of the family).
So all we do is sweat it out, and hope:
1) none of our near and dear lose their homes, and
2) the wind doesn't drive it up into our hills at some point.
Pray for Southern California: I swear we're careful when we landscape. I's just that the heat and the dryness and the Santa Ana winds make it interesting around here—all year long, if you want to know the truth.
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if y'all need to bug out, god forbid, we're right down the hill.
Posted by: caltechgirl at October 22, 2007 10:07 PM (IfXtw)
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We don't seem to be in any of the affected areas. At least, not so far.
There
was that fun Christmas eve in which we gathered up the family photos and got them all ready to load into the car. The fire was a mile away; we could see it in the air from the front door.
It's the closest we've ever come to evacuating.
Thank you, Dear. I'll keep you in mind, should the winds change again.
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The authorities are getting more optimistic 'round here. The santana winds have died down, onshore flow is going again, and humidity looks like it's going to rise. Looks like most of the donations to the various agencies may end up going into storage for the next disaster, eaten at any of a number of celebratory events, or sold on EBay for funds.
This is the first natural disaster I've ever seen where we've been urged to not donate, because rescuers etc. have more than they need.
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July 16, 2007
Aw, Come On.
Let's not make it sound
worse than it is. One swaps out the tanktops for long-sleeved T-shirts, and switches to jeans from shorts. And one starts wearing socks again.
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I'm waiting for your Yahoo! Avatar to start dressing for Summer.
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Good point. I haven't done a thing with her since Spring.
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I saw her Easter outfit. Nice.
Does this prove I'm certifiable?
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Was that in doubt?
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I just figured you were keeping the dog happy.
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Oh, Sean, I'm sorry! You're in Wisconsin! How embarrassing!
I guess there's more to it than just wearing socks with one's sandals over there . . .
Imagine my horror!
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And what exactly is "keeping the dog happy" a euphemism for?
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I decided to take it as "walking your mother's dog during her illness," because otherwise I'd have to fly out to Wis-whatever and strangle Sean, and I don't really have the time . . .
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March 08, 2007
Back in the City of Sexy Angels
I got home last night after interminable adventures with U.S. Air that I may post about once I recover from them; suffice it to say that I got up at 3:30 a.m. Pacific on Wednesday, and arrived home at the same time this morning—24 hours later.
My attempts to recuperate have involved the following activities:
1) liberating my car from bondage;
2) doing laundry;
3) sleeping until 2:00 p.m., without a shred of guilt over it;
4) driving my car with the window open;
5) playing rock and roll very loudly;
6) checking out all the cool trees in my little town—many of which are covered in little pink blossoms that weren't there a week ago, when I first left for the East Coast. California is so green in the winter and early spring; it doesn't really get brown until late May or early June.
I dig Maryland, but home is pretty gorgeous, too.
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Its only green here for maybe, MAYBE four or five months.
And it doesn't bother that every time it rains the whole dang places turns to mud?
Sewer-spewed mud at that?
Anyway, no animosity necessarily intended. I dig your site for the most part and am glad to have stumbled upon it.
I am always happy to read a fellow Angeleno!
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March 04, 2007
George Will
. . . was on one of the talk fests this morning. One of the benefits he pointed out to the GOP nominating Giuliani was that it could conceivably put California back in play.
That would change the political landscape considerably.
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GWill is probably right.
What I heard Giuliani say on Friday will appeal to a lot of people.
And I also agree with your assesment on how it'd change the political landscape.
Posted by: Fausta at March 04, 2007 09:38 AM (IgEwj)
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The Republican Party has been behaving of late as though it only had a social-conservative wing. Now, I don't buy the Giuliani-is-Reagan-reborn spin, but the message of the libertarian and/or business wings of the RP have a much better chance in California than does the moralist message.
Especially as the Democrats are turning towards a grating moralism of their own (see Gore, Al).
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March 02, 2007
It Might Be the Opportunity of a Lifetime
. . . to acquire land or housing in the SF Bay Area; they've just had
two small temblors less than a week apart.
Cash in! Buy that condo for less that $750,000! Now is the time!
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January 19, 2007
I Bought a Little Crate of Mandarins Today.
These might be the last ones we can afford
for a while. Please keep the farm workers and farmers of California in your prayers. Three-quarters of the citrus crop lost, and nearly every crop affected. Shit.
I hope one of the trees in our yard decides to produce this year: the lemon tree is reliable, and the orange tree usually produces, but the tangerine tree is flakey in the best of times, and it's tangerines that we like the most.
Perhaps I can find someone who likes grapefruit, and work out an exchange.
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"tangerine tree is flakey in the best of times"
Like a certain weblogger?
I couldn't resist. It was a gigantic softball floating toward me, and I was Mark McGuire right after an injection.
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The lady who runs the cafeteria at the school at which I work purchased ten times the usual amount of OJ this week because she suspects that prices are about to go up.
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Gee, Sean--if I meet anyone to whom that description applies, I'll be sure to pass that along!
Yeah, John. I keep telling myself that if I overbuy on citrus, I'm part of the problem, because I'm creating an artificial shortage--a "run" on fruit in the stores.
But I'm mired, oddly enough, in human nature.
BTW, I'm not sure the price increases will extend to juice; a lot of the citrus that isn't pretty enough to be sold as whole fruit gets used for juice--that's why FL oranges are used more for this purpose than CA ones. But some of the CA crop was rescued, and will be diverted for use in OJ.
Of course, I have no idea how much sort-of-damaged fruit was salvaged in the storm front, so I can't be sure. If they grabbed enough oranges as the frost was hitting, the fruit could, theoretically, flood the juice market and hurt FL farmers by creating an imbalance.
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January 08, 2007
Breakin' Like the Fire at Malibu
Such a
tragedy. And it happens way too often: the 1978 fires earned a few pages in the 1979
Santa Monica High School yearbook. I watched the '93 blazes from my next-door neighbor's house back in West Los Angeles: a part of the Malibu Mafia from our Samohi days, he was able to tell me how close the fire had come to the homes of those we knew.
Does anyone know how Sandra Tsing Loh's father is? I don't think he was right on the beach. But I don't know the area well enough to be sure, and I no longer have her e-mail address. Someone get back to me on that.
I should have thought of this; it was so warm today, we had the windows open again. It seemed nice at the time. Fuck.
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February 24, 2006
Am I the Only Californian
. . . who didn't even know we
had levees here? Well, of course we must: how else could we steal water for agriculture in the Central Valley? But other than that "keep the produce coming; I like water; faster, please" attitude, I hadn't thought much about how we actually channel the stuff. Stupid of me, really.
Arnold knew, though. Along with Crime-Fightin' Feinstein, who co-signed his letter asking for Federal funds. (No. Thanks for asking: I'll never forgive her for tipping off the Nightstalker when he was in SF. What a stupid woman; Ramirez' victims deserved better than that.)
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Di-Fi tipped off the Nightstalker? What?
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You didn't know? Darlin', you need to get more than 20 miles inland
sometime in your life!
Then again, I have an unfair advantage in the "knowing California has levees" war 'cause I grew up in Sacramento.
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McGehee: The state goes more than 20 miles inland? Say
what?
Oh! You mean Yosemite!
Stuart: When Ramirez was in the Bay Area, DiFi was mayor of SF. The cops told her they knew for a damned fact that the Nightstalker was in her city, and they shared with her the pivotal/confidential piece of information: they had ID'd the pattern on his tennis shoes from some of his SoCal crimes. She released that little datum to the press, and the next thing you know, the shoes are in the SF Bay, the cops have one less tool for tracking him, and evidence tying him to his crimes has been destroyed.
This is, of course, without even getting into the arguments over her role in the "Twinkie murders" (Moscone and Milk):
After Dan White assassinated Mayor George Moscone he "slipped out and ran across City Hall's rotunda. He used a passkey which his aide had given him and let himself in the back door to the supervisor's office. Dianne Feinstein saw him along the way. She called to him as he passed, but he ignored her." The then went on the kill Harvey Milk ...And police took the opportunity to do a little gay-bashing of their own, raiding bars and beating up the clientele. The officers on the line made it no secret that they saw Dan White as a hero. ... The jury found White guilty only of voluntary manslaughter.
The argument is that she might have been able to save Harvey Milk's life if she'd been more proactive, though not everyone can think that quickly, and I honestly don't believe that--no matter how ambitious she was--she wanted these guys murdered to further her own ambitions. It did, of course, end up helping her career.
But she's against military-looking guns, and for the "war on drugs," so she must be tough on crime. Right?
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Wow--I don't remember having heard that--yet another reason to be disgusted with her, and with SF politics. Is there any accountability out there? Not that there is any in Chicago. We have had one-party rule here since the dawn of time . . .
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November 29, 2005
Scandal in the Golden State
Some things, of course, aren't so much shocking as just
sad.
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November 22, 2005
Ladies and Gentlemen,
Mark Steyn on
politics and celebrity in the Golden State:
So now [Schwarzennegger's] being stalked by Warren Beatty. In the runup to election day, Beatty showed up everywhere Arnold did, as if he were the Actors' Equity-designated understudy for the role. If they're remaking 42nd Street, Arnold's Bebe Daniels and Warren's got the Ruby Keeler role as the plucky kid from the chorus who gets sent on stage with the stirring words, "You're going out there a youngster but you've got to come back a star!" Or in Warren's case: You're going out there a wrinkly woozy semi-has-been but you've got to come back a star!"
Will he do it? "I don't want to run for governor," he said the other day, making it sound like he's interested in the role but he won't audition. He's certainly in the right party: The Democrats have already taken on most of the characteristics of a bad Hollywood project—no ideas, script full of ancient cliches, but if you can get the right star to commit to it we just might make this thing fly. And, though he's never run for office before, Beatty has the crucial ingredient: name recognition. All over California, women are going: "Warren Beatty? Oh, yeah, right, now I remember. That guy I had sex with in the late '60s."
Read the whole thing, and thank me later.
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Thank you, AG! I'm still wiping the tears.
The thing Arnold has over Shirley MacLaine's little bro is that he actually worked for everything his has. Inspite of the fact that many people hear "funny accent" and believe that means low IQ, Arnold is a very shrewd businessman. He also can take the lumps that were dished out by the CTA, Unions and state Socialists, learn from them, and move on.
Beatty was little more than a pretty, priapic shell. Looks like "shell" is all that's left.
Posted by: Darleen at November 22, 2005 08:49 PM (FgfaV)
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Furthermore, he's really vain
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Furthermore, he's really vain
That song wasn't about him.
Now, if the CA Republicans can just overcome their "Death Before Election Victory!" self-destructive tendencies. I mean, precisely how stupid does a political party have to be to take Gray Davis' advice on who to run against him?
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Mark Steyn's on a short, short list of essayists who just about never miss. Hitchens, Krauthammer, and a few others are that good. Not many, though.
No, Christophe, that song isn't about Warren Beatty. But he probably
thought the song was about him. Which is kind of the point.
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No, Christophe, that song isn't about Warren Beatty. But he probably thought the song was about him. Which is kind of the point.
Christophe make little yok, ya?
All over California, women are going: "Warren Beatty? Oh, yeah, right, now I remember. That guy I had sex with in the late '60s."
We like to call that "energizing the base."
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Fake Eastern European accents are so enchanting.
I have to go now: I want to watch
Shampoo again, and verify that its premises about female sexuality are just a teensy bit male-stereotypical. But in that charming, sleazy 70s way.
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Actually, Utron, the thing that amazes me about Steyn is his ability to keep utterly up-to-date on what's happening in the U.S., Canada, Britain, and the Continent
all at the same time.
An ex-boyfriend of mine used to refer to Isaac Asimov as "the Asimov brothers." I feel that way about Steyn.
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November 07, 2005
There's a Nice Little Roundup of BFL Blogging on the CA Special Election,
right
here.
In a surprise development, my views on parental notification laws are in the minority within the Bear Flag League. Life does have its twists and turns, no?
Vote Tuesday, and we'll be golden. (Get it? Get it?)
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September 08, 2005
Interesting Article
. . . by one of GayPatriot's readers in
this post, which posits that overreaching by activists could have the effect of setting gay rights back in this state for years.
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Sully stooping to new lows by insisting that Prop 22 only meant to ban OUT OF STATE gay marriages. Do you suppose he believes this shit, or just thinks we're idiots?
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Well, he does have that selective memory thing
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June 29, 2005
Mayor Sam
. . . has
a thing or two to say about the "caveman element" within the California GOP.
A lot of us share this feeling: both parties in the Golden State are controlled by their extreme wings. It benefits no one.
A lot of people like to point to Reagan as a genuine conservative. He was one. But he wasn't anti-gay, and he discussed immigration issues without coming across as racist. We need someone positive, who can truly appeal to disaffected Democrats. Arnold is a start, but he's one guy, and we need more people to do the work in the most populated state of the union.
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January 11, 2005
Well, Now.
That was lovely: nothing like spending two hours with your husband on a Monday evening, trying to guide the water out of the basement, as it seeps in through the little "weeping holes" in the wall. I've never seen the basement so flooded, even during that much-hyped "El Nino" year.
Plastic sheeting is horrible, since there's always a seam between the pieces, and the water makes its way in between them. This frustrates us, and makes our tempers fray. (There were difference in tactical notions: is it better to cover a wide area with the plastic sheets, or a smaller area that acts more like a funnel for the water? Each was convinced his/her own ideas were correct, so as I recall we alternated in whose got implemented.)
All I can think of is to make a hollow in the basement floor and install a decorative little streambed right along the middle. It would be a conversation piece, and it would impart bitchin' feng shui to the place. And it would come handy on years like this, when all of SoCal turns into a large fish bowl.
Somewhere, in Florida, I hear people laughing.
Come on in; the water's fine. And you won't even need your shades.
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oh, goodness! Where was the water coming from? The rain? I thought CA didn't have basements (my sil lives there and that was her account, though maybe I misunderstood.) Could you have a sump pump installed (or is that extremely costly and not efficient)
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Yikes!
No, we don't laugh at Mr. Water. We may allow ourselves a quick grin when we think no one's looking - but even that's a grin of fellowship, laughing with ya not atcha. It's that shared fellowship of human misery. Sandbagging is definitely not fun.
I think I'd rather do hurricane preps any day. It's warmer. Plus it's more or less over at some point - once the cleanup's done, and all the plywood or shutters up, everything battened down, there's nothing much to do but sit and wait it out. And I like it being flat ground, slides are so unpredictable, scary.
The weather's so intensely beautiful before and after, too. Around a hurricane we always need our shades.
I like your streambed idea. Very much. We've been thinking about putting one in the back yard. You could put a little bridge over it. Some steppingstones. Koi. A little trellis with flowering vines. A nice gazebo or pagoda. It's a great place to lounge about with hot chocolate.
Uh, how big is your basement again? We don't have basements here. I'm trying to cram half my back yard into yours and I think I'm running out of room.
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Our house was built in 1963 by a woman whose husband was a bridge engineer. She was a small-time real estate developer, but they made this house to live in themselves. The construction is bizarre, but it stands by a steep hillside: we have a bridge for the driveway and one going up to the front door. And the house itself is bulit like a bridge that doesn't go anywhere: it's a platform that uses cables, concrete columns and I-beams.
There are two living levels, and below that, a workshop/basement that's two rooms, small ones (let's say a bathroom and a half for the workshop, plus another bathroom). And lots of cubby spaces and cabinets around.
It's nice to have the storage, but it's yet one more area Attila the Hub has to patrol for rats.
And there's a wonderful view. Living in this house is like driving a Masarati: wonderful most of the time, but the bills come due every now and again—usually during windstorms, but also in flooding weather.
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Rachel Ann, our "basement" is above ground level (well, part of it's under the slope, but part is not). So we were just trying to guide the water to flow out the workshop door and onto some plastic sheeting we used to try to get the water away from the foundations of the house.
The husband's goal was not to have the ground around the foundational elements (in our case, concrete columns) become saturated and start to liquify.
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I feel for ya. I know what that is like, with all the hurricanes NC has gotten over the past 10 years. Good luck, and be careful. Without being patronizing, don't drive through flooded areas. Seen too many bad things happen that way, too much tragedy.
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January 06, 2005
You Go, Big Guy
The Spear Shaker has a
summary of Schwarzennegger's aggressive reform plan for Cauli-fornia.
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