January 26, 2007
There's a Great Big Beautiful Tomorrow
. . . well, right
now.
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Sure. Tease us with a non-working link like that!
http://desertcat.blogspot.com/
see:"When It All Goes Down"
I think.
You can have that world now. Just sign over your paycheck to Nancy Pelosi.
Posted by: Darrell at January 26, 2007 01:15 PM (9Ven5)
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Thanks. It's nice to know that someone will pick up the pieces when I'm in a hurry like that.
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 27, 2007 12:50 AM (PRYnl)
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January 23, 2007
The Clutter Lady Came Today.
It was four difficult hours, but we accomplished a lot. Also—she charges less than my last clutter lady, and has more experience.
Call me if you want good organizational help in the L.A. area.
I'm exhausted, but I am working from my actual desk, which we dug out from under a pile of papers and books.
I pointed out to her helpfully that you can always recognize those who aren't serious about getting organized, because they only have one file folder for each subject: some of us have two or three or four. We're not like the lightweight psuedo-organized: We're overachievers.
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I'd love to know about her.
Thanks.
Posted by: leelu at January 24, 2007 12:21 PM (KFuCy)
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I have a "clutter lady" too. I call her Ms Wastepaperbasket. Any of you in the heartland, please let me know if you need more details. . .
Posted by: Darrell at January 24, 2007 09:07 PM (y7VwW)
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January 21, 2007
Running on Empty
A couple of computer crises made the newsletter for my nonprofit group an adventure this week. The beautiful thing is that I do that work as a volunteer, but my responsibilities as a paid employee kick into high gear once we send the beast to the printer. That week of hell each month culminates in two Saturday meetings held in dusty rooms that trigger my allergies. During the 4-5-hour ordeal I'm expected to give four written/oral reports (two as a volunteer, and two as the office manager).
I generally stay at my mother's place those Friday nights, so I can get into the office earlier on meeting mornings. Under the best conditions this means I sleep a bit more than if I had stayed in the Pasadena area. Under the worst conditions it doesn't work because her dog chews up the couch I'm sleeping on, and that disturbs me in the night.
And by the time I leave the Center on those Saturday afternoons my mind has often turned into whatever that stuff is they make Vienna sausages out of.
It's like that now. I'm tired, but content, in that sicko feminine codependent way.
[Yeah. I end sentences with prepositions; ya wanna make something of it? I mean, is there something you would like to make it into?]
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"Excuse me. Could you tell me where the English Department is at?"
"Here at Harvard, we do not end our sentences with prepositions/"
"Very well, then. Could you tell me where the English Department is at, you pompous jackass?"
Posted by: John at January 21, 2007 10:57 AM (HCdF+)
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January 14, 2007
Yeah. We Missed Him.
The husband made such good time today that by the time we went out to the 18-mile checkpoint to cheer him on, he'd passed it by twenty minutes before. This is partly due to his wife's problems with time management, but more of it had to do with his habit of always making the conservative, "safe" judgement: the range he gave us of when he might pass by just didn't allow for the possibility of his getting across the start line early, and keeping up his best pace.
Attila the Hub finished the marathon in four hours and twenty minutes—an hour and forty minutes ahead of how he did last year in Hawaii.
At a certain point his sister urged me to give up the vigil. I agreed, and went to the Circle K for ice. Once I got back here, I checked with Mr. Internet, and found out that he'd finished—and made good time. So I went down to check the shuttle buses; he stepped off one of them just as I reached the lobby.
Running has done great thing for A the H. And I'm very proud of him.
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Posted by: k at January 15, 2007 01:34 AM (lCUKc)
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Brisk, dry air to help him along, no doubt.
Did I say brisk? Yi-iy! I near froze my patooie off this weekend!
Posted by: Desert Cat at January 15, 2007 08:05 PM (xdX36)
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My father finished the half-marathon in 2:16 minutes, 14 off his time last year. I wonder how well he'd do if he actually had time to train.
And no, I have no desire to walk/run in my father's footsteps. I don't want the runner's high when I can get something similar from a good bottle of merlot.
Posted by: Sean Hackbarth at January 15, 2007 11:20 PM (QJ5cf)
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Wow, impressive. I can cover 26 miles in the same time too here in LA (in a car).
Posted by: Dalsan at January 17, 2007 02:09 PM (lV2Hd)
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January 13, 2007
Live from Phoenix!
I'm here in the
Valley of the Sun. I'm supposed to have lunch with
Desert Cat today, and then tomorrow I'll be cheering my husband on in the
Phoenix Marathon.
Blogging will be more-than-light for the next few days, as I'll be occupied fetching ice to soothe sore spousal muscles.
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Small world. My father is running the half-marathon. My mother is with him to cheer him on/pick him up after it's all over. They took my grandmother along for a much-deserved vacation and an excuse to do some AZ site seeing.
I'd say I'm jealous but it's not that warm there now, and the thousands of people there for the marathon would get in my way. I'm waiting for Spring Training in March.
Posted by: Sean Hackbarth at January 14, 2007 01:28 AM (QJ5cf)
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AND!!! DC has posted a certain Picture, taken, I think, around the time of said Lunch.
That's my blogdad and blogmom in the SAME PICTURE AT ONCE!!!
With a great restaurant sign AND pretty flowers too!
All right, all you bloggers out there. Now you tell me: How often does that happen? HUH? HUH?
I am the LUCKIEST blogchild to ever be virtually born.
Posted by: k at January 14, 2007 01:33 AM (lCUKc)
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Oooh, hoorah. I was going to send you that pic, and one like it that Daisy Cat took. I was hoping DC had posted it--was going to check on that after I answered my comments.
Daisy Cat is an extraordinary woman: bright. With-it. Thoughtful. You'd like her.
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 14, 2007 06:22 AM (ha3lH)
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Sean, it's COLD here right now: maybe not by Wisconsin standards, but by Southwestern standards, it's intense.
And I left my jacket and coat in SoCal, so I'm muddling along with sweaters and sort of dancing around to keep warm when I have to go outside.
Usually when I come out here in the I pack clothes like the ones I take to the mountains. It's warm generally warm during the day (that sunshine thing), but at night the temperatures drop straight down like lead. It typically goes from 65 degrees in the daytime to 30-40 when it gets dark, here in the desert.
How cool that your dad is running the half: I'm going to run a half this coming fall. I'll remember to look for your family in the crowds . . . ! ("Do you like good cooking? Tanqueray gin? Baseball?")
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 14, 2007 06:32 AM (ha3lH)
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AG
The last couple of mornings, the thermometer on my patio has been a rock steady 30 degrees. (Friday I ran outside to take pics of my house covered in a mixture of hail and SNOW!!)
Spousal unit traveled to Adelanto on Saturday to help set up a friend's new computer... neighbor kids were having fun spraying the bushes with water and watching icicles form.
Posted by: Darleen at January 14, 2007 01:01 PM (x/ea7)
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If my mother did the same thing as last year she hunkered down at an Einstein's Bagels with a book and waited for my dad to finish running.
Posted by: Sean Hackbarth at January 14, 2007 07:37 PM (QJ5cf)
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Actually, Darleen, I did get your mail, and I showed A the H the pix of your house covered in snow.
It reminds me of the time it snowed in Northridge in the early 90s. Wild.
Sean, there was ice on the sidewalks here. One runner slipped on it and fell. This is something like a 20-year record cold day for Fenix--VERY atypical. I'm sure your parents didn't even notice.
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 14, 2007 09:53 PM (ha3lH)
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Oh, I do not LIKE being cold like that. Feels too much like Minnesota.
Unfortunately I didn't have the luxury of hunkering down somewhere warm this weekend to wait it out. I'm still thawing.
Posted by: Desert Cat at January 16, 2007 04:54 PM (B2X7i)
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January 11, 2007
Quote for the Day:
"I am content now that I'm taller than James Bond. It took me years to accomplish that."
—Darrell
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January 09, 2007
So, Which Is More Destructive?
Fear, or envy?
I'm talking about on the individual level, here: which emotion tends to be more corrosive to someone's personal development? Discuss.
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Envy is more corrosive. But you rarely see envy
without some sort of (sometimes hidden) fear/anger
strings attached.
As an aside, I read somewhere (can't recall or I'd attribute) that the tool
Satan used to persuade Eve to eat the Fruit of Knowledge
of Good and Evil was envy. He evoked it by say she would
"be like God", implying she was somehow deficient and
therefore needed to do something about it.
-Bob
Posted by: Bob at January 09, 2007 10:46 AM (CP6tB)
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Anything to excess can destroy. And even intrinsically bad things can have value to our lives.
Fear can keep you from trying new things. But if those things turn out to be harmful, then that is a good thing. Envy can make you decide to get 'some of that' for yourself. As as long as you're not taking it away from someone else, that might be a good thing. Both fear and envy can be destructive, personally and to others.
As with most things in life, there are no easy answers--especially when no specifics are given. Did this help anyone? I am envious! And more than a little afraid. . .
Posted by: Darrell at January 09, 2007 12:55 PM (/zLRh)
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"I have seen the moment of my greatness flicker,
And I have seen the Eternal Footman hold my coat, and snicker.
And in short, I was afraid."
T.S. Eliot was a stud.
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 09, 2007 02:25 PM (0CbUL)
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I'm sticking with the choice of envy as the most corrosive.
It's listed as one of the seven deadly sins, fear is not.
(Although unrighteous anger is, and anger is often a cover
for fear.)
Envy is the sidelong glance through which we behold
those we _feel_ are better or better off than ourselves.
Envy is not satisfied until harm befalls its object. It is
the reputed motive behind Cain murdering his brother.
It is one of the fruits of the depraved mind listed in
the first chapter of Romans.
Self-help authors note that envy prevents you from
attaining or enjoying a better life for yourself.
That's my choice, and I'm stinking with it.
-B
Posted by: Bob at January 09, 2007 06:27 PM (2tBSJ)
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Well, before Socialism, people thought that God bestowed all that we have. Or don't have. So envy also combined elements of jealousy---sibling rivalry, so to speak "God loves LMA more than me! Wahhhh!!"
Hush! Envy can drive people to take what they believe should be theirs (hence the birth of Socialism). Those aspects of sin (against the Will of God and against man) are the impetus for envy making the Seven Deadly list. I don't believe that this is what we are talking about here.
The only sensible thing to do is to conduct an objective assessment of fear and envy in your life. And to make a list of the positive and negative consequences of each occurrence. Did it motivate you toward good? Or bad? Were you happy with the result? The flaw is that one can never really know the outcome of the road not taken. The quote should be "The saddest words of tongue or pen describe the life that might have been."
And when I'm handed my coat, I just reach for the cigarettes in my pocket. And the lighter of course.
Posted by: Darrell at January 09, 2007 09:19 PM (qMfx0)
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But coveting is directly tied to envy, and it's proscribed in the Ten Commandments. So there's that.
The "Big Book" of Alcoholics Anonymous suggests that "sometimes we think fear should be classed with stealing; it causes almost as many problems." (Or something like that--I might be paraphrasing a bit.)
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 09, 2007 10:50 PM (0CbUL)
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Here's the distinction between envy and jealousy:
I would be envious of Atllia the Hub's (AtH) relationship with LMA if I desired a chick as cool that deeply involved in my life, and resented AtH's good fortune.
I would be jealous of AtH if I desired LMA to be that cool chick involved in my life, and resented AtH's good fortune.
Envy, and to a lesser extent jealousy, of and by themselves are kind of neutral. When mixed in with a touch of resentment, then it becomes destructive. Add in other of the deadly sins, and it takes on a life of its own, sort of a personal fire storm that burns out-of-control until it uses up all available fuel. And if it causes one to act out, then you can cause grave harm to others.
Fear pretty much is limited in scope to the person doing the fearing. Unless it causes them to act out.
The most obvious example of that are people of faith - doesn't matter which, some atheists come immediately to mind - who are not strong in their faith, and are not completely comfortable with it yet. They're uncertain of their beliefs, and have not learned enough yet to argue on the merits should someone challenge them, so they lash out.
But so long as they're not picking up a lead pipe and aiming for the back of your head, they're only harming themselves.
Posted by: I R A Darth Aggie at January 10, 2007 09:21 AM (1hM1d)
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Ah, yes--but there is harm to society when talented people sit around envying the abilities of others, rather than acting on their own true strengths.
"Admiring this man's art, and that man's scope,
With what I most enjoy, contented least.
Yet in these thoughts myself almost despising . . ."
Shakespeare knew about that.
Or people can sit on their talents out of fear: fear of failure, fear of success. Fear, as an ex-boyfriend of mine once put it, of "succeeding too moderately."
Society loses when people stew in their own self-destructive juices.
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 10, 2007 12:25 PM (0CbUL)
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Ever notice that certain of the Commandments can be grouped into "Don't do it!" and "Don't think about doing it!"? You shall not commit adultery. And, You shall not covet your neighbor's wife. You shall not steal. And, Neither shall you desire your neighborÂ’s house, or field, or male or female slave, or ox, or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.
Not much wiggle room there.
Shame on anyone who was aroused by that reference to juices! Or to stew. No matter how tasty.
Fear can be overcome by just doing it(H/T to Nike). What are you waiting for?
Posted by: Darrell at January 10, 2007 01:16 PM (gs5BB)
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Of course, as Freud pointed out in Civilization and Its Discontents, we can hardly help having these impulses/fleeting desires (e.g., lust, desire for material possessions, etc.).
What's destructive is indulging them--obsessing about how nice it would be if one had, say, Brad Pitt's money or Oprah Winfrey's connections or Thomas Sowell's brains. THAT is coveting.
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 10, 2007 02:33 PM (0CbUL)
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Shouldn't that be Oprah's money and Pitt's connections? Or should that be "connections"?
Me? I am content now that I'm taller than James Bond. It took me years to accomplish that. Excluding that Peter Sellers/Woody Allen farce, of course.
Posted by: Darrell at January 10, 2007 08:50 PM (KReVz)
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January 03, 2007
There's Something Cool
. . . about a guy who
still tends bar at the age of ninety.
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January 02, 2007
Well, Sure.
I don't go out of my way to kill spiders in the house: I keep a few around to dispatch any bugs that make their way in, and then I try to trap the others and take 'em outside, where they are perfectly fine.
And there are some local animals such as squirrels that my husband will use humane traps for, and relocate.
But it sounds like an awfully dicey idea to use the "humane" strategy with mice or rats. By the time rodents make it in, there are generally too many of 'em to trap humanely: they need to be killed, just like ants do.
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With normal insects, I catch them in a plastic container against the wall or ceiling, slip a firm sheet of paper underneath and take them outside, where I release them with a stern warning.
Mosquitos, on the other hand, get swatted.
And, sadly, mice get squashed in traps. It's not their fault they carry disease, but they do, and I sure as hell am not going to risk missing them with a humane trap.
Posted by: Attila (Pillage Idiot) at January 02, 2007 07:10 PM (ZaM5Y)
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One big rat down, now all you've got to do is get the other few hundred thousand that are invading your country.
Posted by: Pete at January 02, 2007 11:21 PM (umQgI)
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That was clever, Pete. Thank you.
Posted by: Attila Girl at January 02, 2007 11:42 PM (zxOEV)
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Speaking of spiders, how about an eduactional video
about Spiders on Drugs (do you have this posted already?).
http://blogs.sun.com/rama/entry/spider_on_drugs
See the surprise ending.
-B
Posted by: Bob at January 04, 2007 11:44 AM (CP6tB)
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