There's a fascinating book out by a woman named Norah Vincent, about her experience cross-living [dressing as a male, and taking on a male persona] for some months. It contains tremendous insight into some of the issues men cope with day after day.

Insty plucks out some of her observations on the heterosexual dating scene from "the other side," and receives e-mail from some tired veterans of the gender wars.

Male, female, gay, or straight—we've all just got to be nicer to each other.

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1 I haven't read anything but a few bloggers' comments, but the photo of said author as a man is totally asexual . . . What kind of woman would have found that attractive?

Posted by: Sissy Willis at January 20, 2006 08:00 AM (FU1id)

2 What kind of woman would have found that attractive? Dunno. Perhaps the ones who dig "metrosexuals"? also, we have to keep in mind that the events described in the book happened in LA. Ummm, that would be "Los Angeles", not "Lower Alabama". :-)

Posted by: I R A Darth Aggie at January 20, 2006 11:01 AM (1hM1d)

3 For many women, personality and brains really are paramount in terms of considering men as potential mates. So a wicked sense of humor would have drawn a lot of women to at least have dinner with this person, if not sleep with him (her). It also looks like she got some professional help--perhaps from some of the makeup artists who specialize in helping transsexuals.

Posted by: Attila Girl at January 20, 2006 11:40 AM (/y+/O)

4 For many women, personality and brains really are paramount in terms of considering men as potential mates. I had forgotten that looks ranked lower, maybe 5 or 6, depending on the woman involved. D'oh! I seem to have forgotten more about women that I ever knew.

Posted by: I R A Darth Aggie at January 20, 2006 02:50 PM (1hM1d)

5 at my age, it just ain't worth it to go through it all again only to end up with yet another petulant woman-child unwilling or incapable of accepting responsibility for her own happiness and success in life Preach it, brother! I would not. If heaven forbid I found myself single at this point, I would not go through it again. The minefield is all that much thicker since nearly twenty years ago when I hooked up for life.

Posted by: Desert Cat at January 20, 2006 04:39 PM (B2X7i)

6 Yeah. I'm done, too. My spouse has ruined me for anyone else. Of course, if I found myself in an alternate unmarried dimension, I might check into strictly recreational possibilities . . . but that's different.

Posted by: Attila Girl at January 20, 2006 07:10 PM (/y+/O)

7 Oh quite! Recreation is something altogether different.

Posted by: Desert Cat at January 20, 2006 07:55 PM (xdX36)

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